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Matty's avatar

What an utterly fascinating woman! It appears to me that she put into practice Morris' suggestion to have nothing in one's house unless it was useful or beautiful. As I read your piece this morning, I thought about what her life might have felt like to her. She had space and support to be creative. She had freedom of movement and thought. And, to a great degree, she had freedom to make her life what she wanted. Those were all revolutionary and I would think she had such delight in those options. The angel in the house culture was so pervasive that it seems to me that she found the space to defy much of that suffocating culture. The fact that Larsson seems to draw his muse from the life she created indicates to me the power she held in the household. More than that, her creativity found an outlet in things that the family needed -- clothing, household textiles, furniture, and so on. I wonder, too, if perhaps her greatest legacy is not the tangible, but the intangible. What effects did her choices make on her children and those around her? The fact we are touched, intrigued, admiring, of her life suggests that her influence is still rippling .... not bad for a woman who appears to have not expected or sought appreciation for her creativity or life....

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Linda Slow Growing in Scotland's avatar

Very interesting, and I'm really conflicted about this. I'm not remotely an artist, so I don't know what it would be like to put aside a wellspring of creativity, even if it was redirected into other outlets. How much of it was unthinkingly conforming to the norms, and even then, did she have a pang of regret? I've been reading "Millions Like Us", by Virginia Nicholson, and have been struck by the relief with which many women gave up work after the war and went back to being housewives. I imagine if you were working in a munitions factory that would be easy to do, but if you had been breaking codes or translating French and German, wouldn't it have been hard? Whatever she felt, running 7 children and a labour-intensive home didn't deflect her from creating in the domestic sphere. One wonders how Carl would have coped with that!

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